Meaning cut to the chase and tell it like it is!!!!!
Today and from here on out it is coming SUGAR FREE!!!
I would rather tell people the way it is and not tell a lie just to avoid things being said.
So I ask do you usually sugar coat it or do you tell it sugar free?????
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Well, I am not one to sugar coat things. Most people that annoy me have a pretty good idea now days. I am over sugar coating things to make someone else happy or to make things less drama. I say, tell it how it is and let them figure out the rest!:)
Oh, mercy, Corie is soooo right. I wish I had seen this earlier today ... NAILED it on the head ... say it like it is.
Have a wonderful PS weekend.
TTFN ~Marydon
I hope I would be honest, but with kindness and tact.
Sadly...I have a tendency to tell it the way it is... and sometimes that gets me in trouble! LOL! :):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):):)
I try to speak from the heart and I am a Sugar Free gal.
Debbie
Hi Jamie,
OOH, that's a tough one for me. But I am like Keetha. I would try to be honest with kindness and tact. However, if someone was continually just mean and spiteful then I think I would forget about the tact and just say how you feel.
Hope all is well and that your ok my dear.
Love Ya,
Cindy
I am not one to sugar coat it! I am pretty good at telling it like it is.
Hugs, Reda
I am one to tell you how I feel. I expect the same from others as well. Sugar coating to me is playing games...so no games when it comes to the truth!!
Jamie, I'm quilty. I think I've done it all one time or another.
If you need to chat...plez email. I iz here!
God bless,
d
The truth... with just a sprinkling of sugar so as to not hurt someone's feelings if at all possible!
But when my feelings get hurt by someone I think it's important to straight out and tell the person the truth. Heck with the sugar!
I use splenda. Wish you luck with what happened. sandie
Oh, I'm sorry you're going through this (we all do from time to time). Sending well-wishes your way!
I just ran over to tell you that we used your wonderful suggestion (of the beautiful plates with Sara's colors) for her Shower over the weekend. I never would have known about them if it weren't for you. Thank you, Jamie!!!
Jamie, I've gotten to the point that unless it will do some good or change something I don't say anything. I just cut my losses and move on. I like less drama.On the other hand if it can make a difference or change something for the better I'm not scared to say it how it is. I'm sorry you are having drama. Hugs, Kathy
I am struggling with this. I try to be 100% upfront when I can, but I am famous for sugar coating. I just tell the part that won't hurt the person's feelings and that usually gets me by without revealing all. My daughter always catches me doing this and I tell her it's OK to tell a partial truth because after all, that's not lying! But actually it almost IS lying because it's not being 100% truthful. Ugh. A hard spot to be in. I suffer when I think I'm going to hurt someone's feelings by telling the whole truth. Sugar usually works! Good topic Jamie. Sorry I couldn't say anything profound.
xoxo Amy
Oh Jamie! That could be a loaded question. I guess I have to answer honestly and say that sometimes I do. NOt always but sometimes yes. I just have to consider the situation, the person, and how important the answer is... I would love to always be able to "tell the truth and nothing but the truth" But I sometimes you can't.
~Liz
Oh Jamie Sweetie...
I am SO tired of sugar coating things. I am flat out of Splenda. I think being sick like I have been, has taught me to be honest with people. Tell them like it is.
I know some people are sensitive, but why should we always be the one that does the coating, and they take and take?
Have a beautiful day sweet one. I miss you. Many hugs and so much love, Sherry
Whatever it is that has prompted you to ask this question, I hope that it has been resolved & that you are feeling better about your decision! {{HUGS}}
Sounds like somebody needed a good sit-down, talkin' to!
I've ALWAYS been an outspoken person & not one to pussy-foot around a subject but having once lambasted a family member for something extremely thoughtless & dangerous, I found it damaged the relationship permanently. So my advice would be, don't speak when angry & don't put anything in writing that you wouldn't want the whole world to see. Always sleep on it, too. Morning gives a different perspective on many things.
Mega Hugs,
Rett
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